sympathy (humdardi)

symapthy , what i say for this word  whether i call it a human's inborn habit, or a disease which vaccine is yet to be discovered , most of you after reading the first line may abuse me or call  me man with heart of stone , but that  would not affect me bcoz i  call myself a psycho, and i know after going to my article u  will support my words not everyone but most of you.

Some days before i found a post on fb that is
"stupid cancer.. we all want a new car , phone , freedom. but a person suffering from cancer needs only one thing.. to survive . i know that lots of people who think that they are too cool wont repost this but a very litle amount of my friends will put this on ypur wall as a honour of someone whoi died of cancer, fighting against it till now".

After reading this post most of you will feel preety on cancer people and repost this post on your wall, most of them will think that they have  done their bit by reposting , and get a tons of comments saying "uh", "ahh" , "weldone. yaa  im also reposting" , wow and  some one would say u opened my eyes , if it is posted by girl and blah blah comments. and the person on the other side who has posted the after seeing those comments feel proud on himself/herself.

Now i want u must all see the other face coin if that post goes to the person suffering from cancer, what he will fill " u gifted him tears with ur words of sympathy," the wounds which he is trying to heel u are pouring salt on them".

Time can heel the wounds , but only then if any one wont rake up the old wounds.

It is the human nature that as time progress he forgots the every damn things happened to him  and he become so much acquainted to his life , that damn thing doesn't bothers him/her.but if any one tells him /her what is the damn thing that lacks in ur life by sympathising him/ her he comes to know that his life is such a curse and starts  to compare his life the other persons , this damn thing sympathy does and person becomes prone of comparing his life and thinks that he  lives in the life that god gave is the worst ever.

lets take an example of a blind person by birth , if u see the world from his side the color of each and everything is black for and he has his own design of each and everything that resides in the world.
if someone  comes in his life and tells him the xact beauty of earth, describes each and everything that changes, his definations of the world,.
what would happen he will feel guity on himself the world that he has imagined is not really like that, and will feel pain inside that he wont be able to explain to others.

The other person would be feeling proud on himself that he had showed him the real world, but infact he doesnt know he had made the person to think that he is not part of this world actually  what he is lacking in the life, what the life has taken away from him, and now the blind really wanna that pair of perals that would cost as stone for him further.

Dont know whether i would be able to explain my feeling to you, just wanna say symapthy shows what the other one lacks in his life  stop giving this bull shits words of condolence to every one , instead of showing sympathy let them live their part of life, bcoz now and then lif will later or earlier  will surely teach them way to live, but this hell sympathy make them creep, living the life as burden on others..

plz  think think and think...........................